There’s a distinct difference between emotional affairs and friendships, and it has everything to do with boundaries.
For all that people wring their hands about it, dating really hasn’t changed that much, even since the 80s.
While this is traumatic and tough, It is still possible to be a quality parent when you live far away from your children.
Maybe comfort blinds us from truth, and prevents us from being who we were meant to be.
How two failed marriages taught me to embrace fearless authenticity and love myself.
“What if you stopped trying to please her?”
If your life-partner is telling you strongly that you are ignoring major lifestyle expenses then listen to them.
But you CAN stop hurting her when she says “Hey. When you do that, it hurts me.”
And other realizations at three years and eight months of marriage.
You chose each other so you could grow.
I do not see myself as a victim.
Everyone will be okay.
Some people simply shouldn’t be in each other’s lives.
Why an honest argument can keep our relationship healthy.
It’s not just knowledge or information that eliminates the irrational fear. Sometimes, something significantly distracting overpowers it.